Justin Sales, Air Force Military Blog of Shame
3708/15/2016 by
Justin Sales
Meet Justin Sales, a former Air Force dependent riding high off of his previous privileges. Justin has made a life convincing people he is an active duty Air Force member to obtain the little extra perks that go with that status. Though probably not to the level of Stolen Valor, but pretty low in some cases. Most of the claims about him are word of mouth, but include things like, using his fake AF status for jobs, reduced rates for an apartment, base privileges. We were able to grab his LinkedIn profile with his bogus claim on it. We are going to drop a little advice to anyone in the military getting a divorce, and this is from experience; Get that dependent card back in the process of a divorce! It will save you a whole lot of headache!
Justin is claiming just over 6 years of active duty in the Air Force, but the Air Force is saying, ummm never heard of him!
A quick glance at man power confirmed what the US Air Force already told us.
Military spouses determining their military benefits after divorce face a complex process of understanding both civil code and military regulations. It is best for spouses to familiarize themselves with these matters before getting divorced, if possible, and to seek legal counsel for assistance. The Uniformed Services Former Spouse Protection Act (USFSPA) addresses these concerns.
People like Justin do not help the struggle many dependents have after going through a divorce. He gives the impression of being little more than a parasite, feeding off what little valor he can attach himself to.
So welcome Justin! Welcome to the world of exposed POSers, we hope you enjoy your stay because it will be for a very long time.
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Dint he use to sell cars ? LOL
Used to, is the key word here.
Good Job Justin. Enjoy your fame. Maybe if you had one inkling of pride or respect for yourself, you’d apologize. but you’re a coward and you won’t.
Chip help us out here
This is the pos that convinced my wife I cheated and left me for him. Now he lives off my child support and her free benefits for “non deployed Air Force disability,” and state benefits because she hasn’t worked since October 2013.
How did you find out about this story? And does she know about this pos’s story now?
A friend sent it to me a few days ago.
Wow man, Im Sorry for the pain that must have caused you. I definitely can sympathize with your situation. What about his ex wife? Man if I was in your shoes I would blow this whole thing up to her family and close friends. She has got to feel like a dipshit right about now for leaving for such a POS. . It’s pos like this that just kills me. I bet it sucks to be him right about now though. Hey did you check out the other link of his story?
What link? Please share. I blasted it on our local fb pages. He cheated on and abandoned his wife and 3 kids in Lackland AFB.
https://m.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10205491535315842&id=1474954374&set=p.10205491535315842
I’m sure his father is so proud of his son. Sickening
Tyson done let these people scare you. You just keep telling the truth brother!!!
Tyson it looks like there is nothing you did wrong by sharing this story….so far no clarification and
No one else seems to be stepping up to the plate to tell tye real truth.chances are this LJ character is a gry but just as poor as us folks to even have the money to get a lawyer…go ahead get a lawyer those who tey to oppose the story….your only eating your hard earned money…….ooooo give me a reason to shut you down. This is life people ….shit bags exist. And whether your opinion is valid or not truth remains that because of the lies there are a couple of broken hearts out there. ……challenge me…..I promise you your going to lose
Did some digging, found out there is more to this story than what is being shared….. Mr. Tyson’s real name is actually Kenneth Fesuluai and he has left some details out about his story. I found some holes. Not trying to take up for either party but all sides should be shared. Ive been following this story and i will continue to dig. I would love to send a few copies of what i have uncovered if you would like!!! Seems i can only post a comment, not a pic, Please advise…
PS… Mr Kenneth i found out about your military service, seems the national guard should hear about your discrepancies. And to make fun of your wife’s service about her not deploying. Surely by saying this means that you have deployed and been in some kind of combat? Just as you so graciously put it “i shared this on local facebook” I will do the same. So everyone will have both sides…..
Please advise further where i can post the file of the evidence i have obtained….
you can send it to admin@militaryphony.com
I don’t see where he was making fun of his wife’s non deployment. LJ who are you? Because it’s funny how you can know so many details Bout someone who only goes by tyson. Nobody here even knows his wife’s name or his. So how did you just happen to come upon this “information”. Is there a personal vendetta your seeking because surely you can identify yourself by some sort of name other than LJ……this forum is not for your personal business. This forum was about a man who lied about his status. Families are involved here.
Great job idiot now everyone is gonna come searching for his wife now. I hope she likes being embarrassed right along with Mr. Sales for supporting his phony ass
I take offence for someone saying “non deployed air force disability” as disability has nothing to do with deployment. There is tons of people living that have been through things that constitute disability from there military service that in fact, have nothing to do with deployment. Its not to hard to see on Facebook where its been “blasted”. I agree that this forum should not be about personal business, So why is he complaining about what this guy did with the rest of his life. Seems like it is personal considering what he has said. Again i have no personal anything against anyone. I could honestly care less. If someone is going to call out a character, maybe both sides should be shared. That’s all! wouldn’t you say that is fair?
To hear the phrase “non deployed disability” I dont think of it as a offensive because like you said yourself people can get disability for many reasons. I guess complaining about his life has to do with the even more shameful lack of character Mr sales displays not to mention Mr Tysons wife. I mean it is personal to him because Mr sales actions affected his life directly. If Mr tyson or kenneth or whoever his name is wife is still with Mr sales after all this then I say she I should be the most shamed person as it stands. How can she not see what a pos mr sales is by now, how stupid is she? But if his claims are in fact true those 2 destroyed 2 families. But again that’s none of my business. We are only speaking to mr. Sales character. There are families who we need to think about. I mean I’m sure everyone here would agree what mr. Sales has done so far is disgraceful. I mean don’t you agree? What you should have done was speak to this website and submitted his name privately. Now it only looks like you have a personal vendetta. But like I said great job giving up names because I’m sure many people know his wife and it’s only a matter of time before she gets to wear the hall of shame for continuing with the pathetic lies and immoral character Mr. Sales has shown.
What i think your not understanding is he has posted it on a local website and Facebook. You were right in saying that family’s are involved. I’m sure everyone she and he know has seen it. Your right in saying that there life is none of our business. Hope he likes defamation suits. If she didn’t know, i’m sure she will soon.
LJ I’m gonna go ahead and use my gut instincts here and go as far as to say that you seem like a reasonable and smart person. It was meant as a compliment not an insult DON’T SUE ME!! LOL!!! JOKE……..maybe I am misunderstanding what exactly is he posting on facebook….his personal life or this websites story because last time I checked they encourage sharing of these posts given their are multiply buttons you can push and share the story…….so please help me to clarify is he saying personal things on facebook or is it tis story
Still standing by for clarification…..
And to everyone here and to you all at militaryphony.com let’s not lose site of the real predator here. It’s apparent that mr. Justin sales has ruined lives with his lies and he has ruined his own. To the snake he is with and I’m referring to mr sales “stolen girlfriend” ahem you like how I said that (referring to stolen valor) if you are stupid enough to continue believing this goon after all this has broken…..dear lady I beg of you think about what else has he lied to you about. I am not your judge. Only God does that but understand this…..if you cheated with him he will will cheat on you. And again not your judge but honey please have some kind of morals and do what you were taught in the airforce…….service before self, excellence in all we do, integrity first! If this man claims you did what you did shame on you. And that’s just another wound to the airforce and what they stand for. I’m sure every airforce member reading this will agree. Nothing is worse than coveting someone else’s spouse….but to kid yourself and believe he isn’t still lying to you is just ignorant in itself…….sweetheart. One day your gonna wake up and realize you made the wrong choices and trust me it’s only a matter of time before wrong choices catch up to you…..look at Mr sales example….I hope you like working for him because its gonna be a looooonnnggg time before he ever sees a decent job again. Think honey think……he lied about being in the military what else on that polished resume of his is false………..things that make you go hmmmmmmmmm
P.s. I’m gonna do my part and spread this story as far and wide as I can……I know a few folks in the news casting business that would love to meet you……best believe I’m Gonna blast Facebook and every Avenue they offer about him……people need to know he is dangerously manipulative. ….OK thanks everyone for listrning . Keep the faith.
Former Sgt of Marines 2004 To 2008 Active duty.
Nebraska national guardsmen 2015 to present.
Kenneth Tyson Fesuluai
What else would you like to know? I have nothing to hide unlike them.
Shannon, my current adulterous wife, will soon be my ex next month.
Ddaaammmmmmmmmmnnnnnn looks like he told you bitch…….shannon your a terrible human being….but justin sales well your already done so all I can say is enjoy your newfound fame. Man i hope that part about abandoning your wife and kids isnt true ooooo cus that means you have so much more coming down if so…..Your done, capute, finite, finished…….cheaters never prosper case in point the 6 years of NON service. Tyson thank you for your service. Justin thank you for allowing the world to meet your disgrace and MRS. KENNETH TYSON FESULUAI remember what I said earlier. I hope you like being branded with that scarlet letter on your chest. Wear it proud sweety you deserve it. May karma hit you in the ass as well. I hope your family is proud of what you did. Remember sweetheart its is all coming to an end soon. Wake up before you find yourself at 40 wishing you had never slept with another woman’s man and broken your honor. Tisk tisk. For shame. Good luck with the future. Hey tyson KEEP TELLING THE TRUTH BROTHER. Keep the faith. Just know that in the end what goes around comes around thats cliche but buddy so damn true. Keep the faith
I’m seriously interested in this information you feel may discourage me from continuing to spread his lies. He’s a piece of shit.
I do not want a worthless piece of trash that wouldn’t protect and support his own family to even be around my children that Shannon and I love and brought into this world. He knows he’s only alive because I want to be in my children’s lives, unlike him. He doesn’t qualify as a live man, he’s a “snake in the grass,” just like his wife told me once.
My children are my world, I once thought I had a faithful wife and was the luckiest man in the world with a beautiful family. She was stupid for thinking twice when a so-called friend starts trying to get into her pants.
September 14th I will be officially divorced from her. She was a lesson learned. Thankfully the court orders visitation with my children. They need a real role model in their lives. And there is nothing they can do to stop me from being a true father and role model to them.
Idealization
During this phase a narcissist is very loving and is on his/ her best behavior. A narcissist can be extremely charming and loving, which often makes a person fall head over heels in love with them or feel they would be crazy to not love them. In the beginning I felt my ex cared for me more than I cared for him but I had never been loved like that in my life and that is very hard to walk away from. I was perfect in his eyes, to quote him, “Don’t ever change, I love you just the way you are.”
If a narcissist is cheating on his or her present partner with a new lover, it is often more due to the actions of the narcissist than the lover that the relationship started in a first place. While pursuing a new lover, a narcissist is often claiming that he is very unhappy in his/her current relationship, the woman takes him for granted, abuses his good nature and he is carrying the load financially, in the home and emotionally. He will say he has tried and tried and done his grieving of the relationship long ago. He has had to stay because he’s afraid she’ll try to kill herself if he leaves, or she just won’t accept that its over. He is about to get a divorce/separate, has never felt as strongly towards anyone else as he or she is now feeling towards the new lover, etc. If you are the married one he will become your best friend and perhaps even befriend your husband, he will point out how your husband takes you for granted, tell you he wishes he had a woman like you, he will be your perfect match, totally into you, always so happy to see you, wanting to know all about you, your hopes and dreams, you will feel attractive, appreciated, it will be exciting, his romantic gestures will take your breath away, the love-making like nothing you have ever experienced before, you will feel like the sexiest most desirable woman on earth. You will feel you must have this man in your life, you can face anything as long as he has you in his arms. It is intoxicating, you can not believe your good fortune to meet this wonderful man and he loves YOU. A narcissist knows how to say all the right things to make the other person fall hard. The victim often times gives up a perfectly good marriage, moves to be with the narcissist leaving their support network, friends and family behind. They give up an excellent job, invest with the narcissist and are blinded by love; willing to do anything to be with the “love of their life” believing what the narcissist is telling them, that they are soul mates and they have the kind of love fantasies and movies are made of.
Unfortunately this “honeymoon” period never lasts for long. Once the narcissist feels the victim is fully committed they soon grows bored and restless and starts to look for another provider of a narcissistic supply. This is when a narcissist enters the devaluation phase. This is when the victim begins to think that if they just love the narcissist well enough he will go back to the loving attentive man they met. What no one seems to realize is; the narcissist doesn’t get off on your love and admiration, he feeds off of your pain.
Devaluation
During this phase the behavior of a narcissist changes, he becomes cold and uncaring almost overnight. this is when the “mask drops” and you see the real person. The narcissist no longer tells you how much he or she loves you, but instead becomes increasingly critical towards you. Suddenly he/she finds all sorts of flaws in your behavior and possibly also in the way you look. You start to feel increasingly unhappy and depressed, because you have no idea what you have done to deserve to be treated this way. You try to “make him or her love you again”, however nothing you do seems to be good enough and what they want seems to change with the wind. He accuses you of things you aren’t thinking or doing, is controlling, twists your words, where once you could talk about anything calmly and rationally, now every thing turns into a fight. He accuses you of being paranoid, yet they are snooping through your phone and computer, (my ex even had a tracking device somewhere on my vehicle, I found a hidden camera and his sister found a wire running from the trailer to the barn that had a speaker on the end). They know they are out to destroy you, so assume you must be doing the same thing and want to make sure they get you before you get them.Whatever the narcissist accuses the victim of doing is more than likely what they are doing and worse.
A rule to remember; If their lips are moving, they are lying. They can look you right in the eye and tell you a lie, they can cry real tears and could get an academy award for their acting abilities.
They may be loving in public and then treat the soon-to-be-ex with disdain when they get home, yet expect the victim to stay loving and giving until the narcissist is firmly enmeshed in their new relationship. It is a very confusing time for the victim, one minute they are treated with disgust and the next the narcissist is loving, they are blamed for the problems in the relationship but anything they do to mend the fences is never good enough. (I went years not knowing if we were broken up or a couple, he could tear me to shreds in the morning before he left for work and come home from work like nothing ever happened). The victim is accused of causing conflict, yet if they give in to the narcissist they are treated even worse.
You find yourself walking on eggshells for fear of sending him into a rage. Everything is your fault, you are paranoid, too sensitive, causing drama and you should know he hates drama. More than likely some addiction like obsessively watching porn has surfaced or he forces you to perform sex acts you aren’t comfortable with, the great sex you once had is a distant memory unless he is trying to win you over after a really bad fight. Female narcissist often use sex as a weapon, withholding or seducing to manipulate the man. Speaking of which they have an uncanny ability to sense when you have had enough and are ready to leave and will turn back into the sweet, appreciative, loving partner you fell in love with just long enough to reel you back in.
During this phase a narcissist may start to look for another provider of a narcissistic supply and may end up cheating or having an affair, however still keeping the current spouse hooked, just in case the new relationship does not work out the way the narcissist is hoping. The narcissist gets a huge ego boost from thinking that two people (the current spouse and the secret lover) are “madly in love” with them. Plus they get off on being able to pull something off right under the victim’s nose. The narcissist will fly into a rage that you could possibly think he would ever cheat on you and turn the tables so you end up apologizing for accusing them or for some other crime you committed months or years ago. Their crimes are brushed under the carpet while yours are always brought up and never forgiven, even crimes you didn’t commit or even think about committing. (my ex said he screwed around because I could have taken a different man home every night. I said, Key word is “could”
They often play one against the other creating triangulation, and then sit back and watch the show. Nothing feeds the ego like having two lovers vying for your affections; doing the “pick me” dance. Often times they will leave evidence of their cheating around for you to find because your pain serves up such delicious narcissistic supply.Discarding
During the discarding phase the narcissist becomes totally indifferent to the needs or pain of the victim. Once the victim is no longer useful to the N they discard them like yesterday’s garbage. When a narcissist reaches this phase, there is no chance to reason with a narcissist.
Many victims will say that the discard “came out of the blue” everything was fine and then the narcissist sent an email saying it was over, or the victim is thrown out of the house with nothing, and the narcissist is immediately involved with “the love of their life” and the victim is a psycho bitch or abusive asshole. But when you talk to the victim it comes out that there were signs but the narcissist denied their suspicions, accused them of not loving them enough, made them feel if they only did this……… or that………… things would go back to the way they were. There had been abuse but the victim had just gotten so used to the N being hot and cold, the discord had just become “the way they were” and they believed the narcissist would never truly leave them. Then the victim discovers the narcissist was planning their exit for a long time, has been slandering the victim behind their back, hiding money, and has the victim’s replacement lined up.
Once the narcissist drains his supply, the supply refuses to comply with his demands or the N finds better supply he is ready to move on and if they don’t have new supply lined up they set out to find a new source of NS. At this point he is obvious in his infidelity, short tempered and generally acts as if he hates sharing his air with you. The narcissist picks their love interest by what they have to offer, it might have been a roof over their head, the reputation of the victim, perhaps to advance their career, a parent for their child, status in the community, or something as simply as sex.
If you try to beg a narcissist to get back together with you, you are only feeding their ego and providing him or her with a transient source of a narcissistic supply. The narcissist wants you devastated at the thought of losing them and most victims ends up drained, confused, with their confidence and self-esteem in shreds. A feeling of doom pervades everything in their life and many suffer from PTSD. There is no way to have an amicable split from a narcissist. When a narcissist is done with you he is not happy to just walk away, he wants to destroy you and your reputation. He will turn your friends and your own family against you. If you have children he will turn them against you, he will even go so far as to try to get you fired, arrested on trumped-up charges, victims have even been committed to mental institutions because of the vicious actions of a narcissist.
Out of loyalty the victim didn’t talk behind the narcissist’s back so no one believes them when they try to explain what went on in the relationship. The narcissist has already told everyone who will listen that the victim is a paranoid psychopath who has made their life hell, so anything the victim says is taken as being vindictive and they are the psycho liar the N claims them to be. The narcissist must win, and that means they must take everything from the victim, leaving them with nothing to rebuild their lives. In their minds if you are of no use to them you are worthless. It is at this point the narcissist will have no qualms about killing you and the victim should be very careful (there is a free safety plan download at the top of the blog).
He/she will take great pleasure in rubbing your nose in his new relationship and blame you for the relationship failing. He will say how he has met the love of his life, she is calm and rational, they are soul mates and the new man or woman will be smug about They will taunt you to kill yourself, accuse you to your face of doing exactly what they did to you, twist the facts to make themselves look the victim, they will never admit to any fault in the relationship and the victim ends up friendless with no support system because the narcissist carefully planned his/her exit and will just deny deny deny any of the victim’s claims of abuse. It is the victim’s worst nightmare, like they stepped into the twilight zone and are helpless against the vindictiveness of the narc. After all who can believe anyone can be that cruel and conniving. That is why only someone who has been there can understand and believe the victim.
THEN, just when you are starting to heal and get your legs under you he will pop back into your life, professing his love, tears and all, apologizing for everything he ever did and you believe your prayers have been answered, the man you fell in love with is back and you fall lovingly into his arms. The arms of the devil. As he holds you telling you how much he loves you and how sorry he is, he is secretly laughing and giving himself a pat on the back for being so clever and irresistible, and planning how he will punish you for being so stupid as to believe him. In his mind you deserve to be punished for your gullibility and he feels superior to have that kind of control over you. The cycle begins again only much worse this time.
Good luck shannon
Remember mark my words everything I say is the truth, leave now before you end up paying your child support to her……..it’s gonna happen…..and justin I would just give up man….you don’t love this less than a human. Admit it to her while you still can and do some real soul searching….shannon wasn’t meant for you
. Your just a narcissist looking for your next supply. …..God let’s hope your ex doesn’t want your dirty…ass…oh wait ur a narcissist so your gonna play everyone…..do you want proof justin sales……..bet……it’s a deal I’m willing to take. I had enough experience to know ur too scared shit less to take that bet. Just quit while ur ahead…….it will be better for everyone in the long run………lol shannon what’s up….your still waiting for someone to take the blindfold off…..tyson is right…sorry babe your wrong in this….do right by ur faith. ….by what little honor you still have left….it’s over baby girl…….ITS OVER…
If fires could burn and the floor beneath you could shatter
I would hope that it turns you into nothing more than a pile of matter
Your lies your deceit, the way you played your games
Had left us all marked with all your ugly stains
Its your turn now, your crying, you beg and plead
But no one will answer that call of your selfish greed
I thought you didn’t need me, you didn’t need anyone
wasn’t it you that said my life was nothing
and my pain was just your fun
its funny when life hits you and takes you by surprise
and all those little promises, were nothing more then lies
you turn every corner now and your the one despised
you can run away so dastardly but you will forever be disguised
Give up, you have lost all your significance…
Your apparent failure is the result of your ignorance
Chances are you will never live this down
Until the next time prevaricator, when you choose a different town……………….
Mastering the malignant malevolence in a life of dissimulation
Rose a powerful proclivity that took away your adoration
Your love once warm it gave me light in all the dark places
but like ancient ruins of a past life, there are only traces
A small semblance of what used to be a symbol of devotion
is now a diminutive part of a cumbersome emotion
My light is gone, my light is gone, and I never turned to see
before I could catch the debris, the foreboding caught me
I held my breath as anticipation set in……
and tore through my body as if paper was my skin
and as the tenebrous night had settled, I exhaled with breaths of depreciation
I became your object of repulsion and no longer a form of your adulation
A liar, a cheater he is a rapist of truth
he spills his fabrications like the way I wasted my youth
you took your false happiness and tried to make it real
and now your walls are closing in…I wonder how you feel.
The children that you left behind for that dysfunctional error
Will one day come to haunt you in your nights of terror
Your still arrogant, belligerent and you never seem to learn
The people who knew you best are those ones you should never burn
Your living a lie and I promise that life is going to crash
That’s when you’ll realize you left us all for trash
So get the bag ready, I cant wait to bag the ashes
Everyone will look but no one cares about your gashes
You can hate me, berate me, or even exact retaliation
but the heart of the matter is your the one who needed to wake up to your own dissimulation
I hope your future with the beast is something you in the end felt was treasured
Because now the only breathes you take are the ones that will be measured
I can only pray that one day you will understand
A man is supposed to keep his family not take it from someone else’s hand
I’m going to deny this post, this is not the place for poetry about a shitbag.
To the one who has no self worth
You took my love, you took my life
You lied your way and pretended to be his wife
Your lies they eat you may you rot in hell
And as far as his sorry ass may he rot as well
You thought you were Cinderella and would live happily ever after
But I promise you in the end all you will hear is my laughter
For 12 long years I gave him what you only wish you could
You stole the food from out of my mouth
You will break just like you should
He is gone now you got exactly what you wanted
A slob with no prospects, I hope that you stay haunted
by nightmares of sheer horror and the lives you destroyed
I hope you never stop running for your guilt you can’t avoid
I’ve never come this close to madness
OR taste exactly all the likes of sadness
But you my dear will fall into classless
And no one will hear your sounds of crassness
Your a disease,a virus even cancer could not explain
Your absolute disregard for a human life
Will be yours to take the blame
Your shame will be yours to wear and no one is gonna save you
You will ultimately meet your annihilation
And when that day come my kids and I will cry from celebration.
Signed the wife
This blog is not the place for your poetry. I would suggest you start a blog of your own, and send us the link. We would be happy to post that link, but we are no longer posting your poems.
Gee thanks I thought the people wronged could have a say in this whole disaster with what this asswad did with calmer words than flat out insults but nope ok take the poems down then fuck it….what the hell was I thinking
Also take my reply down also so Justin won’t think you guys are standing up for him because I know he is reading this with a big grin on his face you pretty much gut punched the mother of his children and the innocent kids themselves but nooooo your absolutely right.
Regards
seriously you can take them down